I think that I am beginning to surrender to the idea (and reality) that I do not need to be besties with everyone. My purpose in life is not to be well-liked or much-loved, but instead it is to love God and by extension love others, and to perhaps end up at a point where I am able to love others better than I love myself. 

“Humility is perfect quietness of heart. It is to expect nothing, to wonder at nothing that is done to me, to feel nothing done against me. It is to be at rest when nobody praises me, and when I am blamed or despised. It is to have a blessed home in the Lord, where I can go in and shut the door, and kneel to my Father in secret, and am at peace as in a deep sea of calmness, when all around and above is trouble.” ― Andrew Murray